Traditional flirting and attraction tips are all about DOING..The hidden secrets of attraction are all about BEING.  Discover how you can master what you need to attract love into your life NOW!..... read on....

The 7  Hidden Secrets of Attraction

Remember that song 'Strangers in the Night' when Frank Sinatra sung dobedobedo... He got it wrong. The chorus here is :  bedobedobe

1.        Be YOURSELF at your best
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2.        Know what you want
Be clear about what you want.. make a list of the qualities and characteristics, in your ideal lover.. work out what the deal breakers are and revise and reread it every day

3.        Don’t Assume anything
How do you know something is true, what proof do you have, how do you feel when you believe it.  How do you react when you think that thought, what would happen if you let it go…

4.        Your word is your wand
Words are neurotransmitters. They affect you and others deeply. What kind of wand do you want to wave?  One that spreads faerie dust or one that spreads do-do?

5.        Sending signals - The Inside reflects on the outside –
Exercise:  Do it with a friend. Get them to think of someone they dislike, or something they hate eating and notice how their face changes.  Then ask them to think about what they ate today to clear their thoughts.  Finally, get them to think of someone they love, something they are passionate about and notice how their body language alters.  That's what people see!

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6.        Picking up signals - Be Here Now Presence and Attention
Ekhart Tolle, Ram Dass, Yoga, Chi Kung and all the great spiritual traditions say how important it is to BE in the NOW… Let go of musing on the past or worrying about the future and stay in the moment. Like that you’ll be ready and alert to pick up signals and take advantage of those momentary opportunities to connect.  Start with breathing and noticing your breath as you do.  Hey, guess what?  Like this, being present, you don't have accidents!

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